Maybe He Just Likes You

How does the author use flashbacks at different points in the novel? What do each of the flashbacks reveal about Mila and her relationships (or lack thereof) with the important people in her life?

Consider the characters of Samira and Zara. How does the author characterize them? How are the girls different?

How does Mila’s attitude towards clothing change after the harassment begins? How is Mila’s clothing weaponized against her throughout the novel?

Ms. Platt tells the karate students that it is important to “kiai with [their] eyes” (177) when it isn’t possible to shout. Why?

Consider the dynamics of Mila’s family. How are Mila and mom similar? In what ways are they different?

Band serves as an outlet for Mila, but even band isn’t safe from the boys and their harassment. Why does Dee include the detail about Callum “taking up space” in the band room? Why are Mila’s interactions with Callum different compared to the rest of the boys?

Zara says that the boys are just “flirting,” and Omi implies that Tobias might have a crush on Mila. Why is harassment so often dismissed as a normal part of attraction? How might this idea set up harmful expectations for young people in relationships?

Think about the role of karate as an important symbol in Mila’s story. What lessons does Mila learn in karate? How do those lessons help her deal with her situation at school?