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Thomas Hardy

Ah, Are You Digging on My Grave

Fiction | Poem | Adult | Published in 1913

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Symbols & Motifs

The Grave

The speaker’s grave is the most important symbol in the poem, serving as a setting and as the embodiment of the poem’s thematic preoccupations with death and memory. Variations of the phrase “digging on my grave” occur at the opening of each of the poem’s six stanzas (Lines 1, 7, 13, 19, 25, and 31), constantly reminding the reader that this dialogue is taking place in a graveyard and emphasizing that the poem’s speaker is deceased. The grave represents all that is now left of the speaker. Her grave is her last link to the life she once led, and therefore neglecting her grave means neglecting her memory. In discovering that no one is visiting her grave, the speaker learns the extent of her loved ones’ indifference, revealing the fragility of human affection and memory more generally.

The Dog’s Bone

The dog’s bone in the poem’s sixth and final stanza is a symbol of the mundaneness and banality of death. When the speaker discovers the identity of her grave’s visitor, she is at first delighted, believing that her dog’s presence proves that animals have purer loyalty than humans do. However, the dog merely wanted to bury a bone for his “daily trot” (Line 34) by the gravesite. The importance of the dog’s bone is twofold. First, the dog’s concern with his bone instead of with the memory of his former owner furthers the poem’s themes of how banal death is and how fragile all forms of affection really are. Second, the fact that it is a bone is a rather cruel twist, as the bone the dog buries also brings to mind the decaying bones of the poem’s speaker, who is, after all, a buried skeleton. The dog’s bone also once belonged to a living creature, just as the speaker was once a living person who has now also been reduced to something mundane and irrelevant in the eyes of those she loved.

Death and Forgetting

Death and forgetting are the most important motifs in the poem. The poem is quite cohesive in terms of its structure and themes: Stanzas follow a pattern, with the speaker remembering a former relationship and guessing that the person in question is her mystery visitor, only to be left disillusioned to learn that she has been neglected and forgotten by everyone. This systematic dismantling of each of the speaker’s former ties sustains the motif that death and forgetting go hand-in-hand. The message of the poem is ultimately pragmatic: The dead are destined to be swiftly forgotten and replaced, regardless of how loved they appeared to be while they were alive.

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